Tantric Massage Course – Module 4

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Dive into the secrets of conscious touch, discovering sensuality, intimacy and refined Eros. Uncover the mysteries of the sacred masculine and feminine, connect more deeply with yourself, while offering the wonderful gift of sensual bliss to another soul.

This course is designed to help people connect in a more profound, healing and soul-nourishing way.

By addressing the fundamental power of attraction and polarity which is at the heart of any relationship, you will have practical way of embracing and applying the principles of Tantra in your daily life. 

The search for intimacy often seems fraught with risk and danger, but this is simply because it is done without love. When we approach intimacy from the heart, we start to realise that rather than stepping unprepared out into the wilderness, it is a true journey home, imbued with all the feelings of safety, security and love that characterise discovering the route within, to our true self. 

Who is this course for?

For those who wish for deeper connections

People who want to learn the art of intimacy in a practical way, who want to offer and receive touch in a very profound and conscious way that nourishes our soul.

For both beginners and professionals

People who want to develop spiritually. We will go over the fundamentals of physical massage technique, and then deepen this with Tantric principles to transform the massage into an elevated spiritual experience.  

For those who wish to awaken Love and Eros

People who want to discover the sacred masculine and feminine and use the sublime power of polarity and love to expand their consciousness and awaken their being.

The four modules of our course

Module 1
9th -10th December 2023
Saturday 10am – 6pm, Sunday 11am – 7pm
An Introduction to Tantric massage
  • What is tantric massage and what it is not 
  • The secret of conscious touch and the power of intention 
  • Massage techniques – the fundamentals – learning the basic massage strokes by observing and then following with guidance and correction 
  • Pressure points for relaxation, regeneration, well-being and erotic awakening  
  • Revolutionising your erotic life  
  • Putting all this together by practising the universal massage (the same techniques for men and women) 
  • How to practice at home 
Module 2
20th – 21st January
Saturday 10am – 6pm, Sunday 11am – 7pm
The Game of Polarity
  • The Tantric principle of polarity – embracing your own soul nature and in this way awakening your partners soul 
  • Benefits for men receiving tantric massage 
  • Awakening Shakti through the adoration of Shiva – the feminine attitude in front of Shiva 
  • The specific female way to massage – including body to body techniques (demo and practice) 
  • Benefits for women receiving tantric massage 
  • Awakening Shiva through the adoration of Shakti – the masculine attitude in front of Shakti 
  • The specific masculine way to massage – including further techniques for men (demo and practice) 
  • Ways of improving control over the erotic energies 
Module 3
10th – 11th February
Saturday 10am – 6pm, Sunday 11am – 7pm
The Tantric Orgasm
  • Eros – amorous erotic continence – multi-orgasmic capacity 
  • Mapping the erogenous zones, including some insights into the zodiac signs 
  • Subtle anatomy 
  • Energetic Massage – awaken subtle perceptions and discover tantric orgasms 
  • Becoming a channel of Godly Grace 
  • Subtle protection 
  • Consecration – sanctifying our experience 
  • Heart centring – learning to keep our awareness centred here enables us to venture further into intense experiences 
  • Aphrodisiacs – using plants to amplify various energies that will assist our erotic awakening 
  • Practice of massage by men and women, incorporating the awareness learnt in the energetic massage
Module 4
9th – 10th March
Saturday 10am – 6pm, Sunday 11am – 7pm
Yoni & Lingam Massage
  • Deepening love, pleasure and intimacy 
  • Sanctifying the inner and outer temple 
  • Sacredness and transfiguration 
  • Tantric symbolism of the Lingam 
  • Male erotic anatomy and erogenous zones 
  • Lingam massage demonstration (massage practise will not include lingam massage for reasons that will be explained fully in the course)  
  • Tantric symbolism of the yoni 
  • Female erotic anatomy and erogenous zones 
  • Yoni massage demonstration and practise of full massage 

You will receive several printed handouts, but note-taking is also advised as the teachers will be sharing many personal insights from their own extensive personal experience of this beautiful massage technique. 



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Please note: we no longer accept single bookings. All participants must book as a couple.

If you are curious about our Tantric Massage course but don’t yet have a partner, you can join our ‘Tantric Massage Open House’ event on Saturday 18th November. This event gives you the wonderful opportunity to meet and connect with someone who you can partner with in the course itself. 

You cannot attend module 3 or 4 without participating in module 2 at least. 

Vegan, gluten-free lunch is served for £8. Booking of the meal is essential.

Bookings via massagecourse@tarayogacentre.co.uk

Meet the teachers

Ben Carver

Ben has been involved in this tantra yoga school since discovering us in India while he was exploring many aspects of spirituality there between 1999 and 2001. Being a musician, artist and former Steiner school teacher he brings a creative and heartful approach to teaching, which he has always found deeply rewarding. The connection between tantra and art has been a very important part of Ben’s life and here at Tara he has been able to explore theatre, dance, music and massage, as powerful ways to heal and awaken the soul. 

Contact: ben@tarayogacentre.co.uk 

Iulia Carver

Iulia discovered yoga relatively early in life which comes across in the strong sense of spiritual purpose, positive attitude and joyfulness she radiates. Since that beginning in 1993 she has travelled extensively while maintaining a rigorous practice of Yoga and Meditation, enjoying and demonstrating the benefits of such a practice for women everywhere. She is overjoyed to now call Oxford home and is doing her bit to warm the hearts of academics from all over the world, teaching yoga there. 

Contact: iulia@tarayogacentre.co.uk 


“The four modules of this Tantric Massage Course are amazing! It has helped me to connect much deeper with my inner power and my heart. It has made such a huge difference to my life as now I see everything from the perspective of my heart whereas before the course, I only knew how to see the world with my mind. It has even brought a deeper connection between me and my fiance. Now I practise this perspective every day and Read more
Tantric Massage Course student
“I feel as though in such a short amount of time, I was able to learn so much and would be able to and look forward to applying the knowledge in life. I want to continue to explore ways to express my femininity”. 
“I highly recommend this course! After the course, me and my partner had a beautiful, sensual, intimate love making in which we incorporated many of the massage techniques we learnt. Through the course I gained an incredible depth of understanding of my physical and emotional body. This feeling is so profound and deep, an intimacy with myself which I haven’t felt before. I wanted this inward expansion to explicitly trigger but Read more
Tantric Massage Course student
“In this massage course, I learnt new massage techniques, grew in self-confidence/body confidence, understood some really life-changing principles of tantra. I feel it will help me build stronger relationships and have more confidence in life”. 
“The massage course has been such a sublime experience. From the first module, I felt already equipped with the necessary ingredients to practice at home: we left the room with an uplifting state, a bunch of notes and a few hours of practice. Practicing it at home definitely helped! There was plenty of material to digest. I liked the continuity of the modules, each starting from the experience of the previous ones Read more
Tantric Massage Course student
“It was very helpful to understand the specific ways to massage in a masculine and feminine way – and to put it into practice. And it’s always good to get more practice with transfiguration! It helps me integrate it into my daily life, and to lean towards optimism. The massage practice will bear many fruits. Tara exceeded expectations as usual! Wonderful people, wonderful experience”. 
“Participating in this course has opened up a whole new world for me in which I can express my femininity and love. It has been so amazing to offer this massage and feel how the other completely relaxes and awakens at the same time, diving deep into their pleasure and expansion of consciousness.”
Tantric Massage Course student
“It brought me out of my comfort zone as I am relatively new in my spiritual journey and have never experienced Tantric practice. It met my expectations and more. I feel it will help me in my relationships with others and myself. It is opening up a whole new journey for me”. 
“The workshop was great to deepen the connection with my partner, and to teach me how important it is to take the time to care for her. I also learnt how to work with my energy and my partner’s energy”. 
Find out more about Tantric Massage!

Tantric Massage podcast

To many, the word massage summons up experiences of being pummelled or kneaded like dough. Immediately banish this image from your mind! Tantric Massage is completely different. It is a path to self knowledge. It is an unimaginably sublime experience in which we travel through layers of our being to reach the hidden treasures of one’s own self and that of the other. Here teacher Ben Carver describes to student Vivienne Rush the myriad delights of Tantric Massage.

What is Tantric Massage? (blog article)

“In this state of deep self-connection, tantric massage cuts the chains of fear, the shackles of shame and inhibition, any constrictions in the heart.”

Tantric massage is a spiritual practice in its own right. Like a river with many streams flowing into it, there are many aspects to the practice of tantric massage. To both give and receive tantric massage is a beautiful and heartfelt step on the spiritual path, bringing an intense yet safe awakening of the erotic energies that are brimming with life, so that body, mind and soul overflow with love, and the joy of renewal and rejuvenation.


Will I receive detailed written handouts of the massage?
You will receive several printed handouts, but note-taking is also advised as the teachers will be sharing many personal insights from their own extensive personal experience of this beautiful massage technique. 
What level of experience do I need for this course?
We welcome absolute beginners and massage professionals alike. This course gives valuable insights and practice in the Tantric, conscious and loving approach to massage. 

We will begin with the basics of the physical massage and then build upon that with the understanding of polarity, and many different nuances of awareness and depth, that will help you flow ever more freely into genuinely expressing yourself, your true self, in a way that nourishes and awakens both you and your beloved. 
Will I receive an accredited certificate for completing this course?
This course will not provide you with accredited certification. It is for your personal spiritual development, as an individual and as a couple. 
I don’t have a partner. Can I still join the course?
You do need a partner to join the course. 

In the lead up to the massage course we will hold a variety of events in which you may be able to meet someone who wishes to partner with you on the course. Keep an eye on our events list and emails for these event announcements!

Please note that the modules do require quite a high level of intimacy and openness during the massage, so being comfortable with each other is important, and Tara cannot be responsible for any issues that arise from partnering with someone you don’t already know.
What level of flexibility do I need to be able to practice Tantric Massage in the course?
Due to the types of techniques that we teach, the massage is given on a mattress on the floor. You will therefore need to be able to work sitting on the floor.
If you are not used to sitting and kneeling for longer periods of time, you can bring a cushion to help support yourself.
I can’t join for the dates of the Tantric Massage Course, do you have any other opportunity for me to learn about Tantric Massage?
We have the possibility for private training, contact us via massagecourse@tarayogacentre.co.uk if you are interested.